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'' The mother and daughter relationship played a game of life with death '' A conversation with the psychologist and author Luminous Tsalikoglou bazzar the complicated relationship between mother - daughter and limits of maternal love
Fotini Tsalikoglou I met with both properties. Psychologist and author. Her books starring the relationship mother - daughter. I went with many questions about how clear the drama of those heroines in her books, which move to limit relations situations. And I asked her to enlighten us this field in his own light contains so much darkness.
In the word mother heard word monster and the non-deterrent monster, safety from the threat, as in the mother sounds other, bazzar another another but which are in proximity bazzar to the same. The supernatural power, protection and the threat of destruction through the merger. A signifier universality that contains everything. Goods and destructive. Threatening bazzar and protective. The meaning of the archaic mother bazzar found in mythology, religions of the peoples. The omnipotent mother nurse of all creatures. bazzar Catastrophic and holy mother. Gaia was able to destroy spouse, children, and holding in her hands the fate of the universe.
Not consciously. In my first novel, I describe a little girl eleven years old, which has no name. It is the "Daughter of Anthi Alkaiou". Has no name because she has stolen her mother. How to? Through the depression. It is a silent, motionless as a statue frozen bazzar mother. And her daughter, trying to Athens 60 to heal every way. With magic, with palmistry, doctors, medicines, with lolly, music, fairytales .. The child who grows up with a depressed mother bears a task that can never be fulfilled ... .to heal maternal anguish. I am interested to pay literary this desperate struggle. bazzar Maybe because I find analogies in the same race of writing. Love, like writing, fruitless struggle. Be returns through poor words complexities and difficult to get in the ground states of mind and imagination. I say that a daughter bazzar can be the mother of her mother. This happens. Becoming the mother of your mother. The parent of your parent. Efthrafstoi mentally parents who either are, or have emerged as helpless in the child's eyes, pushing the child to be transformed into a child - or adult and geriatric not asking but offers protection. . The child becomes the tile head uncovered head parenthood. Cloth the naked body. There are few children who are encouraged to act as parents to their parents. It is painful, it is painful. It's like you have violently usurp your childhood. In fact we can influence our mother? All played and subject to the rules of a game with uncertain and not always known and commonly accepted rules. The relationship with our mother is not only the here and now, the current from this, the most crucial piece of it has to do with what remains mentally active than before. In my novel the "Gift of Verthas" there is a mother who has lost by sudden death of his son. Here, her daughter, the Vertha tries to confront two ghosts. His dead brother and sunken into the mother's depression. It's like fighting with demons. But fighting, count the terrible forces lurking within you and takes on the how far you can go is like you want to warm the cold of a marble statue, make a motionless statue wept, as if you want to say transformations an indifferent world, a aloof nature, a loving universe. Such an impossible bet but motivates you to stay alive and to persist in the illusion that through your work will. Without this illusion crumbles but also that each creation.
I think that both carries their own complexities. '' My son stays son, until it is with his wife, my daughter left my daughter always says mother in Sons and Lovers of Dora. Ch. Lawrence. But I'm not sure if he can '' with a light heart '' to distinguish bazzar these relationships. These relationships are key to our continued even when the mother is not alive anymore, and certain bazzar ongoing and tragic bazzar cases where the child is the one who leaves first from life. We say to do with lifelong relationships. bazzar We follow to the end. This shows the size of the importance and complexity. Besides the value of the '' essential '' pot